We had a big weekend. The Buffs beat the Huskers and I screamed until my throat was as red as the sea of opponent fans sitting all around me.
Excuse me, who let the rivals into the CU section?
I painted again – another layer of fresh, clean, chalky white over the dark cabinet doors. Home improvement projects are not for the faint of heart.
Band practice filled our basement with loud beats and vibrating floors.
It was ordinary. Normal. Full of things we wanted to do and plans we put into place.
I sat to rest in our worn Lazy-Boy lounger on Sunday evening, and as the thunderclouds rolled in, I started to weep.
In the regular moments, at the end of busy days, the grief and fear and uncertainty of what comes next creep in.
In the stillness, his absence is there.
My overactive mind fills the space with what-ifs and how-to’s and qualifiers of my own doubt and the tiny tears fall.
And as the thunder clapped over my needing-replaced roof, I turned to my mess of a half-done kitchen.
I pulled on the paint-splattered bed sheet, tucking my renovation project in for the night.
I took out a cutting board and placed it on the granite. I palmed six green pears and moved their lizard-rough skin from one side of the kitchen to the other.
One by one, I took a blade, slit the fruit open and transformed what was once one into two. Using a soup spoon, I dipped metal into the grainy flesh, carving out the seeds. Placed all six halves in a prepared baking pan and turned to take the honey bear from the cupboard.
As I drizzled the golden liquid onto the vulnerable fruit, I thought to myself, sometimes we have to be torn apart in order to transform.
Put the pears in the hot oven and baked for ten minutes. Structure softened. Heat broke down rigid boundaries and skin peeled.
After letting the fruit cool and honey pool, I stuffed the holes where the seeds once lived with gorgonzola cheese, letting the creamy blue melt with ease from the wafts of air leaving the pan.
Knives cut, innards scooped out, and golden nectar served witness to the transformation.
I’ve been cut, innards scooped out leaving so much room for beautiful things to bear witness. May I be full of things to help me transition with ease.
It may be silly to compare the preparation of pears and cheese to my growth as a human. But here it is.
I’ll keep letting the tears come, honoring the blade, and turning to the kitchen. My beautiful things.